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Mar 13 2012

CONTRACEPTION: THE CUTLURE OF DEATH (I)

The atomic bomb that exploded in Hiroshima and Nagasaki caused irreparable damage in the moment that the bomb exploded, but even to this day vestiges and remnants of that catastrophic day, and its repercussions can be felt.
The moral-spiritual-ethical atomic bomb exploded one day and the day was July 25th , 1968!  What and where and how was this bomb detonated?  It was in the early years of the pontificate of Pope Paul VI, in a very explosive time in the history of the world.  Students were rebelling in colleges, the sexual revolution was priming up, the hippies had made their appearance and the “Rock n’Roll” music of the Beatles, The Rolling Stones, and the Beach Boys were resounding loud and  clear.
At the same time there were huge strides in science, among which was the discovery of “The Pill”.  A “Pill” was discovered that could  prevent the ovulation of the woman and thereby prevent the birth of a child.  For many, this was perceived as a huge  accomplishment for science, for humanity and for the sake of the whole world!   Conception and the birth of children could simply be avoided by taking a pill with its chemical contents!
The Holy Father, Pope Paul VI, called together a consulting board to look into and to study the issue, the experts in this area of ethics and medicine, to eventually make a decision on this topic.
After the consultation had terminated, the  Vicar of Christ, concluded the issue promulgating a Papal encyclical with the title, “Humanae Vitae” (On Human Life). In short, the Holy Father affirmed the centuries of teaching on human sexuality in clear  and unequivocal terms.   “Every conjugal act between husband and wife must be open to the possibility of life— procreation, in which man and woman collaborate with God in bringing into existence a new person with an immortal soul.  Therefore, any use of any artificial means of preventing conception, termed “Contraception” is intrinsically disordered!  In other words, this act is morally unacceptable, put bluntly in catechetical terms, “A Mortal sin”.  Never should contraception be allowed or permitted between a couple!
Behind the scene, as one of the mayor collaborators and consultants on this topic and the promulgation of the encyclical was a young, 48 year old Archbishop from Cracow, who had written spiritual literary masterpieces on the subject of human sexuality namely   Love and responsibility  and  The Acting Person.   We know this Archbishop as  Blessed Pope John Paul II—“The Great!”                            
The moral-atomic bomb exploded throughout the world, especially in the first world countries.  Europe did not take to the encyclical, but even less theologians and even Bishops in North America! Outright dissent, anger, rebellion, antagonism, antipathy, are a few words that express the attitude of many towards this statement of the Supreme Pontiff!
A key example was the prestigious catholic-priest-theologian in one of the most famous catholic universities in the country, Fr. Charles Curran, professor of Moral Theology in the Catholic University in Washington D.C, where Fulton Sheen had held a chair a few years earlier!
Curran objected, stating that this was not a pronouncement “De-fide”, a teaching only present in the Ordinary Magisterium and therefore, was not binding on conscience.  In other words, individuals were free to “follow their conscience”.  If it were the case that a couple felt it necessary to take advantage of the modern discovery of the “Pill”—contraception—then they were free to use it, under the stipulation that they were following “Their conscience”.  In other words, the individual conscience is supreme and should reign over all!
Further north, in Canada, the “Winnipeg Document” was signed by many of the Canadian Bishops openly defying this teaching of the Holy Father and the Magisterial teaching of Humanae Vitae.   Archbishop Fulton Sheen noted that the church is weak from within when there is division.   This document divided the church into two camps: the minority (relatively few “anawin”) who maintain their fidelity to the Holy Father and his teachings; then there is the huge majority, who at whim and will decide for themselves what they believe to be the truth!
How can this situation of the majority choosing their own belief-system be defined? Situation Ethics!  Morality depends on persons, places, events, social mores and is subject to change. No absolute morality can truly be posited. Equal to the Greek philosopher Heraclitus, who stated that all in the world is subject to “Perpetual Flux”— meaning all changes, and that refers to morality. In other words, there is no such thing as “Absolute Truth”.
Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger, now Pope Benedict XVI, coined  an immortal phrase that explains perfectly this state of moral uncertainty and confusion:  “The Dictatorship of moral-relativism”.  Individuals determine to dictate for themselves what morality is!
Finally, the famous convert to Catholicism, and Bible scholar Dr. Scott Hahn coined the pithy summary of this false-philosophy as “Cafeteria-Catholicism”.  It is probably what you conjecture!  As in a cafeteria you can pick and choose what you prefer to eat, so also in morality you can choose what you like and discard what proves to be distasteful to your moral taste buds!  In other words, Jesus as Good Shepherd and heaven are to be chosen, but Hell or even the pains of Purgatory and practicing moral constraint with respect to sexual abstinence, these can be rejected!
Much of this confusion started with the outright rebellion against the encyclical of Pope Paul VI, Humanae Vitae.  There is a moral “free-for all” in which individuals want to choose for themselves what is right and wrong!
Our conclusion to this modern state of affairs and the remedy is not overly-complicated!  It all boils down to one simple word:  OBEDIENCE!
Does absolute truth exist? Yes!  Where? In a Person: Jesus Christ!  He is truly present in  His Mystical Body which is the Catholic Church.   The Church has the invisible Head— Jesus glorified in heaven. But also, there is a visible Head of the Church here on earth.  Jesus promised us that He would be with us always even until the end of time.  This visible “Head” is Jesus’ Successor, who is called the Pope, Holy Father, Vicar of Christ.  
When the Pope speaks on matters regarding faith, morals and dogma, he cannot make a mistake. Why? Due to the simple reason: that when he teaches in this capacity he is infallible because it is the Holy Spirit— God Himself— that is inspiring and guiding the Pope in these all-important and crucial matters.  The Holy  Spirit is God and the Truth!
Therefore, to avoid falling into the moral abyss of total confusion related to moral relativism, we must humbly obey and submit to all of the teachings of the Holy Father, the Pope, because he who hears Peter (“The Pope”) also hears Jesus and Jesus is the Truth and the Truth will set you free!
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Written by Fr. Ed Broom, OMV · Categorized: Blog

Mar 13 2012

CONFESSION: RETREAT CFC, LENT 2012: Points!

The following text is a retreat given to “Couples for Christ”.  The topic for the Retreat was on the  Sacrament of Confession. Hopefully, though the grace of God and through the intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of Mercy, our life our sweetness and our hope, these points and reflections will help you to appreciate more this Sacrament of God’s mercy and have frequent recourse to it as an infinite source of grace, peace and healing.  The second reflection is points on how to make a Holy Hour. The primary focus is that Jesus is indeed your “Best Friend” as exemplified in the story of the movie of “Marcellino, Pan y vino”—The Miracle of Marcellinus.   May your prayer life skyrocket!

Fr. Edward Broom, OMV
1 GIFT TO JESUS FOR LENT: St. Jerome and Child Jesus.   
2. SIN OF CENTURY: LOSSS OF THE SENSE OF SIN.   Cardinal Tim Dolan’s pastoral letter: from altar to the confessional: priest complained because sent to a new parish and nobody would want to go to confession for months. Wanted to be transferred to parish where there were sinners! ***Image of the room and various views of it… Cardinal Newman’s analogy of the dust entering the room almost unawares.
3. SACRAMENTAL EFFECT: HEALING.   Jesus healed the paralytic: 1st his soul and then his body.  USA/ in general give more importance to body over soul: bath. Shower, junk, poison, house on fire, beauty parlor(did not work!), health-spas, nail in foot.   Confession is like going to the Doctor!  Can be preventive medicine or healing! ***Once was about to get a cold and took AIRBORN.  Got over the initial symptoms of the flu. So confession can serve as Preventive med. To avoid falling. If fall, to bounce back!   Leprosy!  ****Father Damian worked with the lepers and his biggest suffering was his inability to go to confession.***              
4. DEVIL’S TRICK: FEAR AND PROCRASTINATE.  Story of  young man and the cat.****. C.S. Lewis and the consultation with the other devils  on how to capture and damn souls— Do it tomorrow…  Neri and the devil blocking the confessional!   Before sinning he takes away all of our fear; afterward he fills us with fear to the point of paralyzing us!  
5. MARY.  Beg Mary for the grace to make a good confession  in lent in preparation for Easter. It is always a “Lazarus experience”. (Jn 11) Rising from the tomb!  Confession we celebrate the Paschal Mystery!  Die to sin as to rise to new life in Christ!   Marian sanctuaries are indeed spiritual clinics. (Pope JPII).  My experience in OLF/ San V, then in the Basilica of OLG Mexico.  Mary prays for us to be healed so that we can heal others. ****Concept of Nouwen—the wounded healer. Either we wound others or heal them!
PRACTICAL STEPS TO MAKE A GOOD CONFESSION.                                 
1.    TRUST!  Doctrine of the  Diary of St. Faustina.  The greatest attribute of Jesus is His MERCY.   The greatest sinners can be the greatest saints if they simply trust God.   They have a right to His Mercy.  Examples in the Bible of sinners who became saints: Magdalene, Zacheus, Matthew, Peter, and the Good thief!   

 

2.     PREPARE!  90% of the confession is preparing!  Good idea to do it the night before!   Pray to Mary and Holy Spirit. Have a good examination of conscience. Read and examine carefully.

 

3.    WRITE.   Easy to forget and get “Alzheimer’s” especially when we are nervous!  Number of mortal sins ###

 

4.    HAVE IMAGES: D.M AND MARY AND CROSS!   Cross= see what sin did to Jesus. D.M= trust in His mercy.  Mary= Mother of mercy.

 

5.    ATTRITION=  Gift of the Holy Spirit: fear of the Lord

 

6.    AVOID NEAR OCCASION OF SIN.  He who plays with fire will get burnt. Examples: drinking buddies…. Gossipers…. Internet porn… Must make a firm purpose to avoid any person, place or thing that could lead to falling into sin!

 

7.    CONTRITION= perfect sorrow which is love of the Lord. ****Call to mind, as a mother, when you got angry at your child and yelled at him/her as a child. Saw the look on the face.   This is what we have done to God.  Say Act of Contrition before entering the confessional.  For Protestants, yes we do 1st confess to God.

8.    BEFORE ENTERING, PRAY FOR PRIEST!  Experience in the life of St. Faustina and her not praying for the priest.  Recognize that the priest represents Jesus.  Catechism of Jesus and priest in the confessional!***Scott Hahn’s defense of this point with his sickness/bronchitis and the doctor who did it all wrong himself, but gave his patient the right medicine and he was healed!

 

9.     CLOSE THE DOOR!  ***Behind or face to face!  ****Vicky story….Fr. Anton Story in Lourdes…no priest was in the confessional!

 

10.Recognize that confession is not a counseling session but an encounter with Jesus the Healer.   Jesus loves us and truly wants to heal us!

 

11. You start with the sign of the cross and tell  the priest when it was since your last confession.  The priest, the spiritual doctor, can be helped by this information!  You have your own doctor and can have your own confessor, who gets to know the state of your soul!

 

12. AVOID  the following: ‘Buts”—trying to justify, rationalize, soft-coat it.  Use as an example David’s repentance after sinning with Bathsheba and killing Urias, Psalm 51, the Miserere.  David blamed nobody other than himself.  We can easily blame our wife, mother-in-law and not assume the responsibility for our actions. This diminishes the efficacy of the confession. Speak clearly!
13.BE  humble(means the truth), be transparent— not cloudy or ambiguous; be  sincere and honest.

 

14.NUMBER # OF MORTAL SINS.   This is required by Canon Law.

 

15. HELD BACK SINS BEFORE MARRIAGE.  Probably  should make a general confession because it was bad due to shame. HELL STORY!!! Scott Hahn story.  Now is the moment of grace.

 

16. ACT OF CONTRITION AND ABSOLUTION.  What beautiful and consoling words!

 

17. THE PENANCE.   Not a bad idea to do double the penance; this is a sign of good will on the part of the penitent.

 

18. POWERFUL IMAGE; MOVIE OF THE MISSION.    Brother killed brother and penance was to carry a huge weight with a chain. After doing this for  long while,  as the penitent was climbing up the mountain toward the Iguaza falls, the priest cut the rope and the man was freed of the penance and forgiven sin.  Sin is w weigh but Jesus forgives us!

 

19. PRINCIPLE OF GRAUDUALITY.   Cross in the city of Cordoba.  Jesus’ hand is detached from the wall and forgives.    Gradually we can leave our sins with the grace of God and with our good will!

 

20.CALL TO PENANCE: to repair for our past sins. ****Story of boy with tantrum, the nails in the post and the nails pulled out of the post. Sins leave residual marks that have to be gradually erased!

 

21. STORY OF JPII and the priest who had fallen into disgrace.   A beautiful rendition of  “The Prodigal Son”.

 

22.Story of Pedrita….  Message: God will always forgive the sinner, no matter how serious his sin if he simply repents and has trust in God!

 

23.Fr. Tim’s story of the girl with the psychological problems and the confession and the miracle that the psychologist noticed!  Reader’s Digest story; Protestants had more suicides that Catholics. The Reason! Catholics have confession and they do not!

 

24.LUSTIGER’S STORY OF CONVERSION.   The joke! Crucifix on the wall; Tell Him you are sorry for having nailed Him to the cross!

 

25. PARENTS AND FAMILY!  Up to you to provide opportunity to go to confession for your kids.  Hahn.  Should be done at least once a month.

 

26.FATHER’S ROLE!   Doug and Radix.  May the father take the lead in being the spiritual leader of the family. 1st He should go to confession; take his family  and encourage.  ***Teen in Confirmation crossing arms at Mass! Bad sign!  Take the family to confession Monday then Mass and Rosary and then celebrate!  Pollo Loco!
HOLY HOUR; LOVE FOR THE EUCHARIST:
1.     FAITH!  Renew your faith in the “Real-Presence”.   A good genuflection!

 

2.     FRIENDSHIP.  Called to deep friendship with Jesus. He really wants to be your friend. At the Last Supper, He called them “Friends”.

 

3.    EXAMPLE: Movie of “Marcellino Pan Y vino.  Take the steps of this little boy as a model of how we are called to deep friendship with Jesus.

 

a)    DESIRE. To be with Jesus. Friends really want to spend time together.  Friends seek union. Aristotle says that friendship as based on commonality of interests.  We should interest ourselves in what truly interests Jesus.

 

b)     GET TO KNOW!  They exchanged information on their lives. You!  Talk to Jesus and tell him who you are, your background, what has gone on in your life. He is truly interested in you. As we read in Peter:  “Cast your cares on Him because He cares about you…  Come to me all.. (mt 11)

 

c)      CONSOLE HIM.   Often we think only of ourselves; we should think about Him and how to console Him.                                                            
                                      
d)    ACTION. Love Jesus in words, but also try to love Him in actions!  Marcellino saw the suffering Jesus and tried to alleviate the suffering.  He saw Him naked and cold and surrendered and sacrificed his blanket for Jesus and had to suffer the cold.  Hungry- the little boy snuck into the kitchen to abscond with bread to give the many with bones and ribs jutting out to feed the hungry. Thirsty- He gave him wine to drink. Marcellino, Pan y vino…;

 

e)    ALLEVIATE THE SUFFERING.  Took the crown off His head.  He could not bear to see Jesus suffering the cruel thorns through his brow.

 

f)       YOUR SECRET SUFFERING/PROBLEM.  Often we are afraid to open up and reveal our deepest yearning or suffering, not even to those closest to us for fear of not being understood or hurt!  But this should not be the case with Jesus.  He is “The world’s greatest lover”.  He knows us even better than we know ourselves.  We can talk to us and He is a very attentive listener.  Right now, there is problem something that is weighing on you, heavy on your mind, heart or soul.  Open up and tell the Lord.

 

g)    MARY AS MOTHER.  Given that the little boy was an orphan only living in the midst of Franciscan friars, he really never experienced the love, care, concern and tenderness of a loving mother.  So he asks Jesus if he had a mother and how she was!  Jesus responded kindly.  To make a long story short, the little boy asked Jesus if he could be taken up with her to see her, to love her, to be with her forever.  The request was granted!  The dramatic story ends with the little boy dying but really to live forever with Mary in heaven!  Therefore, for us, it is key to ask Mary to be with us to enter into dialogue with Jesus.

 

h)     FRIENDSHIP IN PRAYER!  All of this points to the simple fact: prayer is really FRIENDSHIP WITH JESUS.   The classical definition of prayer from  St. Teresa of Avila, Doctor of the Church on prayer is simply this:  “Prayer is nothing other than spending a long time in silence, talking—at length—with the friend  that I know loves me…”     While in Argentina, one of the first lines I learned in Spanish was, seeing a beautiful image of the Sacred Heart of Jesus,    JESUS EL AMIGO QUE NUNCA FALLA….

 

i)       St. Teresa recommends contemplating the HUMANITY OF CHRIST! This is one of the greatest prayer means to contact with Christ as Friend!

 

OTHER METHOD: ACRONYM A.C.T.S

 

A= ADORATION!   Take the 3 kings as  your models  (Mt. 2)

 

C=CONTRITION!   King David and His repentance as model(Psalm 51)

 

T= THANKSGIVING   Take the ten lepers/the one leper that came back to give thanks to Jesus  (Lk. 17)

 

S= SUPPLICATION    Take the persistent widow in the parable against the corrupt judge as example. (Luke 18)/ or The Canaanite woman who pleads for the healing of her daughter and her insistence.

 

 

BEST MODEL :JESUS IN THE GARDEN of OLIVES( Lk.22)
FRUITS OF EUCHARIST ADORATION:
1.    FRIENDSHIP WITH JESUS
2.    PEACE of heart and mind and soul
3.    Better Communions.
4.    Greater awareness outside of time of prayer.
5.    Power to resist sin.
6.    Lights outside the context of prayer
7.    Peace of soul.
8.    Better Communions!
9.    Heaven. Augustine: “He who prays well, lives well; he who lives well, dies well; and he who dies well, all is well!  Living out our Principle and Foundation!  Those who are in heaven it is for the simple reason that they learned how to pray well during the course of their lives. No better thing in the world than for parents to teach their children to pray. Children are human SPONGES!
10. MARY’S JOY= In seeing us love her Son Jesus!
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Written by Fr. Ed Broom, OMV · Categorized: Blog

Mar 13 2012

GROWING IN WISDOM, AND GRACE BEFORE GOD AND MEN!

 

 At the moment of your Baptism, you were transformed into the living temple of the Most Blessed Trinity. The Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit began to live within your very soul.  God became your Father; Jesus became your elder Brother; the Holy Spirit, became your “Friend” and the “Sweet Guest of your soul” (Sequence prayer to the Holy Spirit for Pentecost).

Therefore, your dignity through Baptism, being so sublime, that your final destiny is the eternal Temple of God in Heaven. However, there is one condition, and this condition is of vital importance: do not lose the Presence of these 3 Divine Persons due to mortal sin; do not dirty that temple by hurting and expelling God by a serious sin; do not lose God for all eternity by dying in mortal sin. 

The two worse calamities that can befall the human person are the following: committing a mortal sin, where God is expelled from the soul, but worse yet, dying in the state of mortal sin and losing God for all eternity.  The Book of Revelation/Apocalypse calls this the second death.  The first death is mortal sin; the second death is dying in mortal sin and  being dead in eternal torment in hell for all eternity.

Ten short  counsels to strive to enter in through the narrow gate so as to be with the Father,  The Son and the Holy Spirit for all eternity!

1. LIVE IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD.   St. Teresa of Avila astutely noted a fact: we sin because forget about God’s loving-presence.  Get in the habit of thinking more about God during the course of the day and remember the words of  St. Paul:  “In Him we live and move and have our being.”   The secret of the sanctity of Brother Lawrence was precisely this: to always live in the “Presence of God”.

2. PRAY SHORT ASPIRATIONS/EJACULATIONS DURING THE COURSE OF THE DAY!
These short prayers are fiery arrows that pierce the Heart of God.  Choose a few of your favorites and pray them as your lungs breathe air. Here are a few!  “Jesus, meek and humble of heart, make my heart like unto thine.”   “Sweet  Heart of Mary, be my salvation…”  “Jesus I trust in you…”  Jesus, Son of the living God, have mercy on me…”    And a very good one– short and to the point in time of trial:  “Jesus save me!!!”                                                           

3. LIVE EACH DAY AS IF IT WERE YOUR LAST!  This is the secret of the saints.  In the famous Rule of St. Benedict, there is very wise advice on this point, namely, we should think about death at least twice a day! 

4. ORA Y LABORA.  This is also taken from  St. Benedict and is his motto.  It is Latin and the English translation is simply, “PRAY AND WORK!”  Notice, the order, first it is prayer and then work follows; if not, we fall into “Activism” and relegate God to a secondary place. God deserves the first, the best and our hearts in their totality!

5. PRAY FOR THIS GRACE: THE GRACE OF ALL GRACES: PERSEVERANCE IN GRACE!     St. Alphonsus insists on this very special grace that we persevere until the very end in grace.   Track runners can be winning 99 % of the time, but can fall at the end.  As athletes for Christ we have not won until we have crossed the finish line, meaning until dying in the state of grace!

6. PRINCIPLE AND FOUNDATION.    Often call to mind why you are here, where you came from, where you are heading, and the means to attain your end!   Our starting point is the loving hand of God that created you and formed you. You are a loving child of God.  GRACE! Living in grace and strengthening grace in your soul, should be your daily program. HEAVEN!   Yes, heaven awaits God’s faithful servant!

7. ACTIONS.   The Cure of Ars once stated do not do anything that you cannot offer to God. We would never offer our friends “Junk”. Much less should we ever consider offering God junk!  That is what sin is, “Moral junk!”  Give the Lord your best!  Avoid the “Cain-complex”; be like Abel!                                              

8. THANKFULNESS!  Never go through a day in your life in which you do not render gratitude to God for all that you have and all that you are.  God rejoices in a  grateful heart and is desirous to flood that soul with blessings.  “Eucharist” means “thanksgiving”. May your motto in life be precisely that word:  EUCHARIST!    “Give thanks to  the Lord for He is good, His mercy endures forever.”

9. INSPIRATIONS!  Living in grace, praying often and fervently,  having received the Sacrament of Confirmation, cultivating interior recollection (meaning interior silence), all this is tantamount to being open to receiving frequent inspirations from the Holy Spirit.  Be open, listen, obey, and trust!  By saying “yes” to inspirations God has many more in store for you! Be generous and trust Him!

10. MARY THE STAR OF THE SEA!   Mary has many beautiful titles and one of these is “Mary, Star of the Sea”. In the midst of the many storms of life, lift up your eyes and contemplate Mary, as star of the Sea.  As sailors, with Jesus as Captain, Mary as star of the sea is always present to us to traverse the storms, to bail out the gushing waters, to brave the sea, and to sail swiftly into the Port of salvation— Heaven, out true refuge, haven and eternal resting place!   Ave Stella Maris!  Hail, Mary, star of the sea!!!  

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Written by Fr. Ed Broom, OMV · Categorized: Blog

Mar 06 2012

SEEKING FOR INTERIOR PEACE OF SOUL? TRY CONFESSION!

                                                                           
That first Easter Sunday night, as the Apostles hid in the upper room in fear of the Jews and possible execution from the Romans, Jesus walked through the wall in His glorified Body and greeted them: “Peace be with you! (Shalom!) Breathing on them He said: “Receive the Holy Spirit; whose sins you forgive they shall be forgiven; whose sins you  retain they shall be retained.” (Jn. 21: 21-23)

By this gesture, Jesus was bestowing upon the Apostles, future Bishops as well as future priests until the end of the world, the ability in His Name to forgive sins through the Sacrament of Reconciliation.  Jesus’ Easter Sunday night gift was none other than giving us forgiveness, peace, joy, freedom and liberty, by instituting the Sacrament of Confession. Gratitude for this sublime gift should have no bounds or limits in our hearts!   “Give thanks to the Lord for He is good; His mercy endures forever.”

However, a problem exists far and wide today: this gift is misunderstood, forgotten,  abused and sorely neglected!   The nature of  a “Gift” is that it is to be well used and graciously received by the recipient!  In too many churches and Parishes throughout the world, the line for Holy Communion, never ends!  On the contrary, the confessional line dwindles to nothing, except the scrupulous sacristan who confesses three times a day!  Let us first present some of the major obstacles, roadblocks and objections to confession; then some practical tips on how to draw close to this infinite source of grace!    SOME TYPICAL OBSTACLES AND OBJECTIONS!

1. TOMORROW.  Too often the devil convinces us to follow the “Philosophy of tomorrow”. Simply do it, but tomorrow!  We all know that tomorrow never exists; we only have today!  C. S. Lewis in  SCREWTAPE LETTERS, presents Satan in discussion with others devils on how to successfully win souls to hell.   The  best idea presented to Satan was to get the people to believe they have a long life and that they could put off their conversion for tomorrow!  The devil of “Tomorrow” has won over man penitents who never make it tot he confessional!   What should be done today, now, should not be put off till tomorrow.  St Augustine presents Jesus as the Pilgrim knocking at the door.  He knocks and knocks, but if the door is not open He will never return.  Why not open today your heart to the Lord’s forgiveness!

2.  ACT  OF CONTRITION!   I do not know the “Act of Contrition”; so I cannot go to confession!  Easily resolved!  Just ask the priest and he will give you a card with the “Act of Contrition”. Resolved!  Just go!  Then, see if you can memorize an “Act of Contrition!”

3. CONFESSION INVENTED BY PRIESTS– NOT IN BIBLE!     FALSE!  it can be found in the Bible in the  Gospel of John, chapter 21: 21-23. Jesus breathes on them the Holy Spirit and empowers them to forgive sins in His name:  “The sins that you forgive will be forgiven; the sins you bind shall be held bound…” A very  clear and convincing Biblical passage substantiating the institution of the Sacrament of Confession! (Jn 20:21-23)  Read it memorize it!

4. PRIESTS ARE TOO BUSY!   Another false claim!   The two greatest actions that a priest can carry out, related to his reception of Holy Orders, is the celebration of the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, and the celebration of the  Sacrament of Confession. Likewise, the two most important phrases a priest can say are:  TAKE AND EAT THIS IS MY BODY; TAKE AND DRINK THIS IS MY BLOOD. DO THIS IN MEMORY OF ME….  and     “I ABSOLVE YOU OF YOUR SINS IN THE NAME OF THE FATHER AND OF THE SON AND OF THE HOLY SPIRIT….”   These words and actions of the priest are by far the most important manifestations of his priesthood.   By calling upon a priest to hear your confession you are helping that priest to become a better and more holy priest!  Holy priests usually spend much time in the confessional; take for example The Cure of Ars, Padre Pio and St. John Bosco! They all spent long hours in the confessional in their thirst for the salvation of souls. St. John Bosco’s motto was: “Give me souls and take all the rest away!”

5.  I HAVE NO SIN TO CONFESS!  Impossible!  There were only two perfect persons that lived on the face of the earth: Jesus, the Son of the living God, and Mary, the Immaculate Conception!  They were born without sin and were impeccable their whole lives. However, in the case of the rest of humanity, we were conceived with Original Sin, commit many actual sins and need God’s mercy through the Sacrament of Penance.   The words of the late Pope Pius XII ring so true today:  “ The sin  of the century is the loss of the sense of sin.”   It is not that you do not have sin; it is that you are blind to your sin!

6. RATIONALIZATION/MODERN PSYCHOLOGY.  Modern psychological schools tend to downplay, or worse yet, simply deny that  “sin is sin”, especially in the realm of sexual morality!  Simply follow your feelings; be free and uninhibited!   The Church has never promoted license and following sinful tendencies but self-control through prayer, fasting, sacraments, Marian devotion and hard work!

7. EVERYBODY ELSE IS DOING WHAT YOU CALL SIN!   Never forget, the Church is not a democracy!  Jesus never promised that to follow Him was going to be easy!  On the contrary, he unequivocally stated the conditions to follow Him: “Whoever wants to be my follower, must renounce himself, take up his cross and follow me.”   Keep in mind!  The cross leads to the glory of the Resurrection and eternal life. Confession is dying to sin and living life and life in abundance. It is the sacramental realization of the Paschal mystery in the human heart: death to sin and rising to the new life of grace!    

8. MY SIN (SINS) ARE TOO BIG!   False!   The greatest attribute  of the Sacred Heart of Jesus is His Infinite Mercy.  The essence of  Devotion to Divine Mercy,  written by “The Secretary of Divine Mercy” St Faustina Kowalska, is that Jesus is Mercy Incarnate.   The greater the sinner, the more he has a right to God’s mercy. Also, the greatest sinners can be the greatest saints, under one condition: TRUST IN HIS INFINITE MERCY!  Remember the words of St. Paul: “Where sin abounds, the mercy of God abounds all the more.”   Never be fearful to draw close to the merciful Heart of Jesus.  Remember the Prodigal son, but remember even more the  Merciful Father of the Prodigal Son. His arms are open to receive you!

9. PRIEST WILL YELL AT ME!  If it  happened in the past, then forgive the priest!   He was probably just having a bad day, as we all do! That was half of your penance! Most likely, it will not happen again! Most priests are kind, merciful compassionate and encouraging confessors! Pray for priests!  Once St. Faustina went to confession and it did not go well, as if the priest did not understand her, nor she the priest. Jesus revealed to her that the reason was  simple: she did not pray for the priest-confessor before entering the confessional.  The next time she did pray for the priest and her confession was excellent!  Before entering the confessional, say a short pray for the priest— maybe even to his guardian angel!                                                    

10. PRIEST WILL TELL MY SINS!   Never!  The priest is bound with the strictest observance to maintain what is called the “Seal of the Confession”.  That means that a priest can never reveal to others what he has heard in the confessional! Otherwise, strict canonical sanctions can be leveled against that priest.  So much so that there have been priests who were almost coerced into divulging the sins of the penitent. One famous case is in the life of St. John Nepomucene.  Father John  was the confessor  to the Queen and the King wanted to know the sins of his wife, so he tried to bride, coax, force, coerce, the priest into revealing the sins of the Queen.  In short, Father John resisted and was martyred, by being thrown over a bridge and drowning then dying as a martyr!  He dies as a “Martyr for the seal of the Confessional”.  So, do not worry! your sins are known to God, the priest(who easily forgets them) and to yourself!  Be at peace!

                                                                    
11. I AM AFRAID!    Time and time again Jesus rebuked the Apostles– and  all of us too– not to be afraid. Jesus said, “Fear is useless,  what is needed is trust!  One of the tactics of the devil is to petrify us with useless, groundless, hopeless, fear! How often have  we feared persons, places and circumstances and events and these fears had no really substance or meaning! Our motto should be:  “Jesus I trust in you!”  St. Paul put it bluntly, ” The Holy Spirit is not a cowardly spirit!”  Pope John Paul II exhorted us: “Do not be afraid to open the doors to Christ!”  That door is your heart!

12. I AM ASHAMED!  Another tactic of the devil is to take away our shame when we decide to commit sin, but then to fill us with so much fear and shame that he paralyzes us, preventing us to draw close to God’s infinite fountain of grace in the confessional!  Shame is related to pride, because we have an inflated view of who we really are. No matter what you think, we are always sinners. But that is the precise reason for Jesus’ coming: to save us from sin.  The name  “Jesus” means God saves! From what! Sin!  And sin forgiven through sacramental confession! How great God’s mercy!

13. I WILL FALL AGAIN INTO THE SAME SIN!  Probably true! However be careful! Classical catholic moral theology for priests-confessors is the theological principle  called “The principle of graduality”. This means precisely this: frequent confession will not eliminate and obliterate all sins and the tendencies toward sin immediately, however gradually the sin will be conquered. How?  There will be a gradual lessening of the “gravity” of the sins and the number of the sins. That is why it is called “The Principle of grduality”– meaning, the sins are gradually overcome through the grace of God and the good will and effort on the part of the penitent! Conversion often is slow, laborious and painful, but efficacious if one takes serious frequent and well-prepared confessions!   Be resilient, like a “Super-ball!” If you fall, bounce higher, launching yourself into the merciful arms of your loving Father! He is waiting for you!

14.  JESUS IS TIRED OF ME SINNING! Never! Right from the mouth of Satan! Jesus knows human nature and that we are “made of clay” and that we are the epitome of weakness. He Himself stated this in the Garden of Gethsemane: “The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak!” If one falls many times, the love of the Merciful Heart of Jesus for you is always overflowing, like a river after a huge, torrential downpour of rain!

15. I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO SAY????   Might be the case!  Ask the priest and he will cue you in and help you with the confession!  Next time, however, prepare yourself better by acquiring a good booklet with an examination of conscience, explaining the ten (10) commandments, so that you have done a thorough and complete “Examination of conscience”.. Priests are “Doctors of the soul”. Doctors can get to the root of the sickness by pointed and opportune questions; priests the same, can help the “Sick of soul” to arrive at the heart and center of their spiritual malady and attain healing!   Mission accomplished!

16. DEVIL WILL TONGUE TIE ME!  Could be! However, prayer to the Holy Spirit is the answer! Remember St Peter and the Apostles, Holy Thursday night in the Garden, when Jesus was arrested, they fled and Peter– with his tongue– denied Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ three times! However, after the first and most efficacious novena of Pentecost, their hearts were filled with fire, their minds with light and their bodies ready to suffer for the sake of the Name  and Person of Jesus the Lord!  Tongue-tied by the devil, unlock, by a short but fervent prayer to He who can teach us how to speak: THE HOLY SPIRIT, THE INTERIOR MASTER AND TEACHER OF THE SOUL!

17. I FORGET MY SINS!  Alzheimer’s indeed can kick in even when we are in our “late-twenties” especially when we are nervous and before special victories! Remember, often before major spiritual victories, the enemy tries to intervene with tension, friction and confusion!  Still, the best remedy  to avoid “Forgetting my sins” is simply to prepare well the night before and to write down the sins on a sheet of paper and have them written as a guide in the confessional! Don’t forget to destroy the sheet afterward; otherwise,  they may appear in the local newspaper next week!

18. NO PRIESTS AVAILABLE!   Indeed pray for more vocations to the priesthood, due to the shortage of vocations: “The harvest is rich, but the laborers are  few!”  Still, search and you will find parishes, sanctuaries, monasteries, Cathedrals, seminaries, retired priests, that indeed are available in most countries!  Interesting note!  St. Damian– the priest who died tending the lepers in Molokai (remote island in Hawaii)– sadly complained that his biggest suffering was his inability to go to confession , as there were no other priests on the forlorn island.  Tenacious and persistent to the last, he would  row out to a priest(or Bishop) on a ship and yell out his sins to the priest on deck!  Give thanks that you do no have to go to these extremes!

19. PENANCE WILL BE TOO BIG!   Hardly! Most likely the penance given is less than you deserve! Even if it seems to be somewhat weighty,  look to the wall in the church and contemplate Jesus  crucified and remember that He suffered all the bitter pains of His passion– down to the most minute detail of pain– due to your personal sins and mine!  Remember the film “The Mission” (With Robert Dinero), in which  a brother kills his own brother. For penance, the surviving brother is obliged to carry wherever ho goes indefinitely  a ball of cumbersome things and tied to a rope! Finally after striving to scale a huge mountain falling and rising due to the weight and cumbersomeness of the load, the priest confessor orders the weight to be cut and severed!  Quite a penance! Yours in comparison, literally nothing! Our novice master taught us–  showing a spirit of true generosity– to always do double the penance of what the confessor imposed!  Two wings to fly to heaven: prayer and penance! Soar high  into the divine atmosphere!  Be generous in accepting the penance and be willing to walk the extra mile

20. OTHERS MAY HEAR MY SINS!  HARDLY!  However, two precautionary measures! First, make sure you close the door to the confessional upon entering! While leaving, keep the door open!  This is called “Common sense!”  Use it! Second,  speak gently nd softly and do not yell! Penitents waiting should have the courtesy to stand far enough way that they cannot hear your sins! Or at least to cup their ears!!!!

                                                                                                                                                       
21. ANONYMOUS!    You might prefer that the priest,  not know who you are! Fine! No problem! That is the reason why the church has given the option to choose to go behind the screen, so as to maintain your anonymity, or if you prefer to go face to face to have a more open confession with the priest! Your choice!   The church and the priest will respect your choice! Anonymity should be respected!

22. ANOTHER PRIEST PREFER!   Perfect!  All penitents have the option to choose their confessor!  Choose whichever priest that you prefer to be your confessor! However, a bit of advice! If your confessor is not available  due to travel, sickness or simply unavailability, then go to another priest! Never forget! Every validly ordained priest is an “alter-Christus”– meaning he is “Another Christ.”  Also, that it is not so much the priest that is forgiving you! Rather, it is Jesus forgiving you and the priest is simply the “Instrument”.  Jesus is the “Writer”; the priest is the  “pen” in Jesus’ Hand!

23.  I CONFESS DIRECTLY TO GOD!   You should before you go to confession!  Interesting note!  You should confess your sins directly to God before entering the confessional. However, as catholics, that is not enough.  Jesus’ forgiveness is mediated through the instrumentality  of the priest in the Sacrament of Forgiveness.  Crush your pride and confess to the priest. Jesus loves a meek, humble and repentant heart!

24. PRIEST A SINNER JUST LIKE ME!    True, but it still does not matter! The priest could be even a greater sinner, but God’s grace still is mediated through his priesthood and the Sacrament of Confession. Dr. Scott Hahn gave a superb example, through the analogy of a doctor.  A patient went to the doctor with lung problems– pneumonia!  He told the doctor his problem.  This doctor, with respect to his own personal life would eat too much, smoke, refuse exercise, and drink excessively. Still, the doctor upon giving the medicine and antibiotics, resulted in thre cure of the sick-patient!  The same with respect to priest-confessor and penitent relation. The priest might be a great sinner, but Jesus still can use him as instrument of mercy and forgiveness in confession!

25.   I WILL SHOCK THE PRIEST/HE WILL THINK LESS OF ME!   Wrong! Wrong! Priests are trained to be ready to deal with all cases of sin!  The human heart, due to Original sin and personal sin, is capable of the most heinous sins. Jesus came to save sinners, not the saints. Some of the greatest saints in the New Testament had committed serious sins before meeting Jesus. Examples: the Magdalen, from whom Jesus cast out 6 devils and was a “loose woman” before her conversion, Zacheus and Matthew, publicans, Peter, who denied Jesus three times and of course the Good thief, who died a thief because he stole heaven!    Also, priests admire profoundly humble, penitent, sincere, sinners throwing themselves in the arms of the Merciful Father

Let us turn to Mary, “Mother of Mercy”.  Pope John Paul II stated that Marian Sanctuaries are “Spiritual Clinics”– the reason being, so many sinners make pilgrimages there to meet Mary who points to Jesus, present in Mass and in the Confessional!   Years ago, I had the privilege of confessing in the Sanctuary of Our Lady of Guadalupe, in the city of Mexico. I sat in the confessional for 7 hours– non-stop– I had to  leave because they were closing up, but the line was twice as long as when I started. Praise be to Jesus through the intercession of Our Lady, Mother of Mercy. “Hail Holy Queen, Mother of mercy, our life, our sweetness and our hope….                                          

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Mar 02 2012

MOVING MOUNTAINS: THROUGH THE POWER OF PRAYER.

Healing paralytics, curing the blind, raising the dead, cleansing diseases, closing the mouth of hungry lions, penetrating the clouds and causing a torrential downfall of rain, stopping the rain, preventing disaster to visit a town, city, country, parting the Red sea in two walls— what do all of these miraculous events have in common? Right!  They were all accomplished by the prayer of fervent “Prayer-warriors”.   And that “Prayer-warrior ” can be you if you desire it!

The last few verses of the Letter of James presents as a model for fervent prayer the prophet Elijah. The prayer of a fervent man is powerful indeed.  When the prophet lived there was a drought for 3 and a half years, Elijah prayed and the sky poured forth rain and the earth produced its fruit.  (James 5: 17-18).  One man with a fervent prayer-life can actually change the climate, the weather and pierce the skies so that they pour down rain.

Jesus said that Poland was about to be chastised, utterly destroyed. However, this chastisement was prevented due to one holy “Prayer-warrior”, one holy soul, and that soul was Helena Kowalska; we know her as  ST. MARIA FAUSTINA.   God is much more pleased with one fervent and saintly soul, then with 10,000 mediocre individuals.  It is precisely this that gives us fire— a fervent prayer life.  Jesus said that He came to cast fire on the earth and that He is not at peace until that fire be enkindled!  May you, my friend, be transformed into the “Fiery arrow” in the hands of Jesus the warrior.  Therefore, how then can we transform an anemic, weak, insipid, mediocre spiritual life into a life overflowing with sanctity, as well as abundant apostolic fruits?     The answer to this is the most simple: learning the greatest of arts, the “Art of all arts”, the art of prayer.  

Prayer is the breath of the soul; prayer is the key that opens up the gateway to heaven; prayer is the strength of man and the weakness of God— because He gives to the person that really loves and trusts Him.  “He who learns how to pray well learns how to live well,”says St Teresa of Avila, “Doctor of the Church/Doctor of prayer”. Prayer is a matter of life and death; so much so that the great Doctor of the Church, St Alphonsus Liguori, asserted poignantly: “He who prays much well be saved; he who does not  pray will be damned; he who prays little places in jeopardy his salvation.”   The point!  Want to make it to heaven? Then learn how to pray well!
Some tips on how to attain a powerful prayer, especially of petition!

                                                                                                                                                            
1. MOTIVATION OF FAITH.   Life teaches that we will never undertake or carry out any initiative if we do not believe that it is worth the time, effort, and suffering involved.  Great athletes, successful businessmen,  superb students— all have one thing in common: a determined determination and  purpose to arrive at their goal. Prayer is of capital importance, but we must convince ourselves of this!  Our models, the saints, were so convinced that they spent long hours in prayer  and for that reason they were able to conquer insurmountable difficulties and undaunted by countless obstacles accomplish unspeakable apostolic miracles!

2. HUMILITY.    Beyond a shadow of doubt, God resists the proud but he lifts up the humble.  Off the bat, at the very start of the explanation of prayer, the Catechism of the Catholic Church highlights pride as a major obstacle.  The  example given is the Parable of the Pharisee and the Publican. (Lk.18)  The humble Publican, who would not dare to lift his eyes to heaven and constantly beating his breast– Lord, have mercy on me a sinner— found favor with God. The Blessed Virgin Mary reiterates this message:  “My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Saviour, because he has looked upon the LOWLINESS   (Humility of his handmaid). A humble heart recognizes that all the good he has done comes from God and all of his sin and misery is his own!

3. TRUST.  Prayer must be accompanied by an interior attitude of Trust.  If God indeed is a loving Father then he will provide for all of my needs.  If an earthly Father labors to provide for his children, how much more will our Heavenly Father for us!  A prayer that should often spring from our lips and start in our hearts is   JESUS I TRUST IN YOU!      

4. PERSEVERANCE.  A major drawback in cultivating a successful prayer of petition is the lack of perseverance.  Many of us like to impose time limits on God!  We believe in the “Infallible Novena”. Nine days, to St Jude (The miracle-worker) will do it!   This is called “Micro-wave” spirituality”.   Food can be cooked in 2 minutes, so God should be able to work at the same time pace as the “Micro-wave!”  Wrong! Never stuff God into your limited time-structure and force Him to do it your way, in your time and in your manner!  Allow God to work in His time and manner!  It took the great St Monica more than 30 long years of prayer, penance, fasting, copious tears after which resulted one of the greatest conversions in the history of the world— the conversion of St Augustine!  Be patient!  Pray, pray, pray and persevere till the end!     

5. PENANCE. Add dynamite and power to your prayer by incorporating penitential practices to your daily routine.  Getting up early and being on time, giving up a dessert, drinking water over soda,  prolonging your prayer time an extra 5 minutes, getting up from the table with a little bit of an appetite, forgoing condiments on your meal— all of these are penitential practices– that if done with the gold of love– can prove very pleasing to God. Consequently, the quality of prayer is enhanced! Like an eagle soaring into the heights, with its two wings, so are we called to reach the heights of holiness through the practice of prayer and penance!

6. PURITY OF INTENTION.  Often prayers are not heard because the intentions are not pleasing to God. Furthermore, it could be that we are praying for something that could be downright poisonous to our spiritual life.  A 4-year old child in a garage that points to the brown liquid in the jar, pleading to drink it!  She thinks it is chocolate milk, whereas it is really rat poison.  Mother must say “No!”  It could be we think we are begging God for chocolate milk, but in fact it is poison! In sum, God can say “No” to us when he sees that the petition , if granted, would be detrimental to the well-being of our soul!

7.  MARY.  In our prayer of petition, we should never forget to invite the Blessed Virgin Mary to pray for us, to pray with us, to guide us in our prayer, to help us to persevere in our prayer, to purify our intentions in prayer.  If we go to the King accompanied by the Queen, the King cannot resist!  The “weak-point” of Jesus is Mary His Mother.  To Mary, Jesus can deny absolutely nothing!     

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