Monday of the Thirty-second Week in Ordinary Time
“For greater things you were born.” (Ven. Mother Luisita)
MONDAY, November 8th Lk. 17:1-6 “Things that cause sin will inevitably occur, but woe to the one through whom they occur. It would be better for him if a millstone were put around his neck and he be thrown into the sea than for him to cause one of these little ones to sin.”
- Do not be deceived! Fr. Ed’s excellent article that addresses how parents can engage children in the Faith, is an exhortation for every adult person who has contact with children in their family or extended family to take action!!!
- We will all be held accountable for the salvation of these children by our acting or failure to act in bringing them to the truth of Christ and His immense love for them!
- Almost all of us have opportunities to talk with children—of our own, of relatives, or friends. Children love to speak and be listened to! Woe to those who fail to first listen to children, then to share the Good News of Christ with them at their level. Beware of the millstone award!
FIVE WAYS PARENTS CAN ENGAGE CHILDREN IN THE FAITH by Fr. Ed Broom, OMV
The primary obligation of parents towards their children is to pave the way for the salvation of their immortal souls. Jesus pointed this out very clearly: “What would it profit a man if he were to gain the whole world and lose his soul in the process. What can a man exchange for his very soul?” (Mt 16:26) This Biblical passage was instrumental in the conversion of the great missionary, Saint Francis Xavier.
In this short essay, we would like to pinpoint five concrete decisions and practices that parents can undertake so as to pave the way to heaven for their children. Never forget parents: your primary obligation is to bring every family member to heaven, to be with God, the Blessed Virgin Mary, the angels and saints for all eternity.
1. BAPTISM
Provide for the Baptism of your child as soon as possible. During the course of the pregnancy, good parents can do all the prior preparations so as to have the child baptized rapidly. Baptismal talks, papers, godparents, etc. can be prepared and ready even before the child is born. Remember the words of Jesus, referring to the small child; “Let the little children come to me because as such is the kingdom of heaven.” (Mk 19:14)
2. PRAY IMMEDIATELY!
A child can be compared to a sponge. The nature of a sponge is to absorb, especially liquids and usually water. However, if the sponge absorbs dirty water, then dirty water will be wrung out; if clean water, then clean water will be wrung out. A three year-old child can watch TV and repeat dumb, offensive and vulgar words or songs. If this is the case, why should parents not fill the mind, heart and lips of their child with prayers to their Guardian Angel, to Mary, to the Trinity, to the Heavenly Father! Why allow the child to be filled with junk; better, to fill them with beautiful prayers!
3. OFFER IT UP
Parents, we invite you to teach your children the short but all important phrase: “Offer it up!” What this really means is to take advantage of daily sufferings and crosses that God sends to adults, as well as to children! How much suffering is wasted because it is not offered up to God! Why not teach children, even when they are small, to offer up their headache, toothache, hot or cold weather, the fall with a bruised and cut knee, so that these sufferings will have infinite value for the conversion of sinners and salvation of souls! Our Lady of Fatima said many souls go to hell because there is no one to pray and offer up their sufferings for them. Children’s hearts are tender and compassionate. Consider the many sacrifices and sufferings offered up for the salvation of souls by the three children of Fatima—Lucia, Francisco, and especially Jacinta who was the youngest! Mom and Dad, you are the first teachers, particularly in the area of faith. Be faithful to your marriage vocation!
4. “LOVE ONE ANOTHER AS I HAVE LOVED YOU.” (Jn. 15:12)
The last and greatest commandment of Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ was that of love—to love all as He loved us. Parents who are blessed by God to have more than one child should make a concerted effort on their part to love all their children and their immortal souls. However, the devil always seeks to sow the seed of discord, confusion, jealously, rivalry, comparisons, and suspicions. Parents must strive with all the energy of their wills to foster mutual respect, humility, love and harmony among their children.
At all costs parents must avoid the “Cain-complex”. What is that? The Cain-complex consists in pitting one sibling against the other. It results in the ugly fruits of comparisons, rivalries, jealousy often leading to envy, fights, hatred and killing, if not physically at least in the heart. How can the “Cain-complex” be avoided? A simple remedy! It is all related to union with God in prayer, the three dimensions of daily family prayer. Parents should pray for their children; parents should teach their children to pray; finally, parents should pray with their children daily! If done, this will prove to be one of the most efficacious remedies to avoid the ugly, but all too prevalent “Cain-complex.”
5. THE REAL PRESENCE.
Good Catholic parents, we warmly exhort you to teach your children, as soon as possible, the meaning of the “Real Presence” of Jesus in the Mass, in the Consecration and Holy Communion. Furthermore, parents should teach their children, even the little ones, that Jesus is truly present in the Church in the tabernacle. How is this to be done successfully by parents? Following are various suggestions!
1) Sunday Mass. Explain to your children that the most important event every week is attending the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass on Sunday, but also participating fully, consciously and actively.
2) Reverence. The modern world has lost the sense of the sacred in the churches today. Parents must teach their children that the church is the House of God and a sacred and holy environment. In the presence of Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament in the tabernacle, there should be cultivated silence that fosters both prayer and reverence. In addition, modest dress and deport in church also speak of reverence!
3) Genuflection. Modeling reverence in front of the tabernacle, parents should execute a genuflection properly, right knee to the ground with hands folded over their heart, and then explain to their children why this is done and help them do the same. Simply, it is done to adore Jesus truly present in the Blessed Sacrament—the Lord of Lords and King of Kings who is residing in His little Palace or Castle. The Three Kings prostrated themselves before the Child Jesus in Bethlehem; we prostrate ourselves by a reverential genuflection before Jesus, worthy of all worship and praise in His Sacramental Presence in the tabernacle.
4) Holy Communion. Parents, work on growing in your faith in Jesus truly present in the Eucharist—we cannot give what we do not have. Children seeing their parents after receiving Holy Communion kneeling with heads bowed, speaking to Jesus within them, is a powerful witness to His Real Presence! They believe, because we believe!
5) Visits to the Blessed Sacrament. One of the first little poems I remember learning as a child is the following related to Eucharistic visits: “Whenever I see a Church, I stop to make a visit, so that when I die, the Lord won’t say, who is it?” Parents should form the habit of now and then stopping with their children to visit Jesus truly present in the Blessed Sacrament in the tabernacle. Even though the visit might only last five minutes. Remind your children that this is very pleasing to Jesus whose Sacred Heart rejoices every time we remember Him and visit Him!
In conclusion, parents must take seriously their obligation to be a Saint John the Baptist and point the way to Jesus and the Highway to Heaven for their children, by striving to implement these five practical points of advice:
1) Baptism—the Graces of early Baptism;
2) Prayer—the Key to Heaven;
3) Offering up Suffering—for a purpose, the Conversion of Sinners and Salvation of Souls;
4) Love—living out Love in the Family;
5) Our Eucharistic Lord—growing in Faith, Knowledge, and Love for Jesus, the Bread of Life, King of Kings and Lord of Lords.
May Mary, the Mother of God, the Mother of the Church, and our own Heavenly Mother attain for us extraordinary graces through her all-powerful prayers!
